Need Some Tips On Making Up With My Boyfriend

When making up with my boyfriend I tried to remember these tips that my older and wiser friend had given me.

Myself and my ex got back together so I hope they work for you also.

1) Men do not like chit chat: typically speaking men do not like to talk in depth about their feelings and forcing the issue will just cause them to clam up even more. So when you're trying to get back together, do not force him to analyze what went wrong. If he behaved poorly but is willing to apologize, accept it and move on.

2) Men can only concentrate on one thing at one time. This is very true so do not try and fight it. Very few men can multitask and it's their genetics that are to blame so shouting at him is pointless. The sooner you accept that your man can't listen to you while reading his paper or watching television the better. Most of the time, he's not ignoring you on purpose. The more you try to understand that this is the way he's programmed the less arguments you will have.

3) Men like toys. The joke is that men never grow up and show it by still playing with toys. Most men love to build things and begin DIY jobs. Not all of them like to finish these jobs which could cause troubles at home. Let your man indulge his hobbies, reasonably. You are able to spend time with your girlfriends while he's fishing or building a boat. By compromising like this, he will in all likelihood be much more willing to spend time with you doing things together that you both enjoy.

4) do not assume that your man knows that you want to make up with him. Men generally tend to be a little slow in picking up signals particularly about relationships. For this reason, you occasionally need to be really direct and tell them precisely how you feel. Men do not like games unless they understand the rules like in Golf or Chess. Us women change the rules on dating more frequently than men change their shirts so we need to give them a break if they get a bit baffled.

5) Have you heard the joke - "Why does it take loads of sperm to fertilize one egg? Because they refuse to stop for directions!" I know the men in my life would prefer to get lost, than admit defeat and stop to ask for directions. Typically men find it really difficult to admit they are wrong. If you question what they say, they can believe you're implying they have done something wrong. This could cause problems in modern relationships as women are so used to being the boss at work and giving other people directions.

I'm not suggesting that women have to become door mats or defer to their partners. But a little understanding of genetics goes a long way to help resolve the question of making up with my boyfriend.