Many people, women particularly it has to be said, appear to spend hours thinking of ways to answer the question of how to get back at your ex? My view on this is why bother? The only person you'll wind up hurting is yourself. Anger and regret are negative emotions and don't have any long term value to add to your life.
Couples split up for all kinds of reasons but I firmly believe that it takes 2 to tango. Yes, he might have had an affair or she might have a drink problem but at the end of the day it's typically too simple to lay the blame for the break up at one person's feet.
But when a relationship ends it should be final unless both of you decide that you wish to get back together. Otherwise, move on. Do not waste your time or energy trying to dream up ways to destroy his life or pick fights with her new man.
Every man or woman over the age of 21 has been dumped at some point in their lives. If they say they have not, they're in all likelihood lying. Breaking up could be extremely painful - you only have to see how many movies and songs are written on the subject. Even classic books involve painful relationships - have you read Jane Eyre lately?
Relationships of all types make the world go round and it would be a really boring place if we were happy always. Stories such as Cinderella and sleeping Beauty end when the couple kiss and we all believe they'll live happily ever after. Cinderella and Beauty have found their Mr Right, but what they do not know is that his first name is always!
Life is too short to live it out with a grudge against somebody else. The only person that will suffer will be you and those that love you. Your ex will be long gone - do you truly think that they give you more than a fleeting thought. They did not care enough about you to stay together so why would they care now?
There are plenty of loveable people for you to date and perhaps fall in love with. But you will never find a fulfilling new relationship if your life is consumed by hatred for somebody else. Being on your own for the first time in a while could be hard but it may also be liberating. Think positively - you now have the chance to do all the things you wanted to do but your partner was not interested in.
Make a list of twenty things you have to be thankful for and read this nightly before you fall asleep. Add five things to your list daily and you will shortly find yourself enjoying life so much that you will not have time to worry about how to get back at your ex. It will be more like ex who?
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