Do you lie awake at night asking yourself over and over "how to get my ex boyfriend back"? Maybe you broke up over something relatively foolish and now recognize that he was the love of your life.
Did he break up with you? Or did you finish the relationship but now regret it? If you were together for a while, it's easy to take a good relationship for granted. We often do not recognize what we have until it's gone.
If you're the only one of your friends in a long term relationship, you might have felt that you were missing out on the fun times and so wanted to be single. Or perhaps the sexual side of your relationship had cooled off and you felt a greater attraction to the cute bartender at your local club.
It's difficult to keep the romance going in a relationship and frequently we forget what first attracted us to the men in our lives. There is also the factor that somebody elses life is always more fascinating. Why is it that the grass is always greener on the other side? You should never forget that appearances are deceptive and your beautiful next door neighbor's smile may be hiding a nightmare existence.
So now you have realized that the cute single guy is on his own for a reason and you want your ex boyfriend back. You are going to have to work hard to gain his trust again. After all, you in all likelihood hurt him quite badly by dumping him especially if there was no real reason why other than you were bored.
Call him and ask him out to dinner. Wear his favorite clothes and perfume. In brief, make a big effort to remind him why he fell for you. Apologize for your behavior. Blame your hormones, your job, stress or your boss but don't put any of the blame on him. This isn't the time to list out all the reasons why you were bored or fed up. You would like to build his self esteem not destroy him.
Ask for a second chance. Remind him of all the good times you enjoyed together. Tell him that your time apart has made you realize that he's the only man you are interested in. Unless you know he wants marriage and children, do not go too heavy on this tactic. Keep it light. Stroke his ego by letting him know how much you want him. Reassure him that you are 100% sure that this is what you want.
You've to be prepared to hear some home truths on what he thinks of your conduct. He will need answers to his questions and will in all likelihood need to let off some steam. Don't retaliate or get involved in trading insults. Listen to what he has to say!
After all if you would like to know the answer to how to get my ex boyfriend back, you might just have to ask him.
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