How To Win Back Lost Love

If you're determined to win back lost love, then go for it. You only have one life and it's up to you how you live it. If you're certain that this individual is the right partner for you, go get him/her today.

Be strong and single-minded in your approach. Now you know what you want, it will be easier to ignore everybody else’s advice and well meaning contributions. If this individual is your lost love, then trust your own judgment. You know them better than anybody else so you should be able to work out how best to get them to return to you.

Make sure of your motives particularly that you are not trying to rekindle lost love because you're scared of being on your own. Being single could be fun, it just takes a little getting used to. It's difficult to be objective when emotions are involved so it's always a good idea to write down a list of all the reasons why you want this individual back. Also write down a list of why the relationship failed. Plainly you would expect the first list to be the long one!

Occasionally people break up and it's the wrong decision. We can all take our lives for granted and as we get older we occasionally wonder if we have missed out. These feelings could cause people to do silly things like walking out on their relationship. If being apart has shown you the error of your ways, then make contact with them and ask to meet up.

If you hurt your ex, you must be prepared to take things really slowly and at their pace. They're unlikely to fall in your arms declaring undying love if you've hurt them badly. If they do, you must still carry on with caution as any lingering problems need to be resolved.

Be aware that regardless how much you miss the other person, there was a reason why you broke up and that needs to be dealt with to prevent it causing fresh troubles. There are a few things that just can't be overcome no matter how much we love the other individual. The idea that love conquers everything belongs in Hollywood not in real life.

If, for instance, you broke up because your partner wants kids and you do not then it's unfair to get back together unless you have changed your mind. Denying another person the chance of having kids causes the type of pressure that very few if any relationships can endure. The resentment will in all likelihood kill the love you shared.

If you have issues that can be resolved with some mutual work, then go for it. Life is too short to waste time in regrets. Occasionally it's not always the easy way forward to try to win back lost love but frequently it's the best step you could ever take.