Yes Or No - Will She Love Me Again

There seems to be a common question that keeps coming up in the thoughts of guys who just went through a break up, or feel trapped in a relationship. That question is: will she love me again? The sad thing is that it doesn't matter how you got to this point. the only thing that matters to you at this point is whether or not you can get her to love you again. You may down, hurt, hopeless and confused, but you don't have to. Instead, you can take comfort in the fact that other men have been in the same situation and were able to get their woman to love them again.

The first thing you absolutely must do is take an honest look at what's going on. This means you have to accept things as they are. If you have just broken up, don't tell yourself the break up isn't real; accept it. This is the first step in getting her back. Also, even though you are asking, "will she love me again", there is a chance that you are misreading her signals and she really loves you anyway. What has she said or done to make you think she has fallen out of love? What real evidence do you have? See, you don't want to expend your energies on something that isn't a real problem.

Once you have determined that she doesn't love you any more, or at least not as much as she used to, you have to give her some space. This means not contacting her in any way for a while. That includes no leaving notes, no late night telephone calls, no bumping in to her "accidentally", and no emails or text messages. By trying to talk to her you run the risk of pushing her further away, so resist the temptation and giver her the time and space she needs for now.

Okay, you are off to a great start, but there's still more you can do. As long as you are leaving her alone, you should use this time to try to put her out of your mind. This will only be temporary, but it's important for you to have a clear head before moving forward. Pay attention to your needs. You may feel awful, but you still have to take care of yourself. Be sure to stay healthy, both physically and mentally.

The final step is to get to the root of went wrong. This is where you will find the clues to why she fell out of love with you. It may take some digging and won't be easy to do, but it will be worth it in the long run. Once you identify what went wrong, you can start doing what you need to do to fix it. Stick with it, and give it time and sooner or later you will get a positive answer to the question of will she love me again.