Too many times misunderstandings are the cause of relationships ending. One day things are going well and the next he is walking out the door. The following are 10 tips to get him to beg you to take him back.
1. Keep things in perspective by writing down the reasons he walked out, speculate all you want and even do some inner soul searching. Figure out what went wrong so you know what to fix.
2. Think back to the beginning of your relationship and write down the things that attracted the two of you to each other. If you were together for a while then you may have just forgotten some of them.
3. Reaquaint yourself with some of the things you stopped doing while in this relationship. Look up old friends and talk about what you liked about your ex. Learn to like him again.
4. Keep your distance for at least 30 days. Even if he contacts you and apologizes immediately, tell him you need some time to think and you will call him in 30 days.
5. Keep your emotions in check the first several times the two of you speak after the initial 30 days is up. Try to pick up clues to how he is feeling about the situation by concentrating on what he says to you and by his body language. Does he lean into you while you are talking or does he look like he is about to bolt.
6. Take the first 30 days and get yourself to the gym and workout to make sure you look your best. Do it for you first then let him see you in all your glory. Buy a new outfit for your first meeting. Make him drool.
7. Be patient, with yourself and with him. Good things are worth the wait. In fact the best things in life are the ones worth waiting for. Sometimes they take more than one try to get where they need to be, too.
8. When the talking begins, keep in mind that you both have things to get off your chests. Each of you should be able to say what needs to be said so all the cards are laid out on the table for you both to see. Be honest with each other.
9. Do not express any anger during this first meeting, that will only make things more difficulty in the long run. Light banter is all that is required. Do not make it a b****fest.
10. Explain that things need to move slowly at first if you are to start over. Make sure that forgiveness is what you are offering and do not use the previous relationship as a weapon in the new one.
These 10 tips to get him to beg you to take him back are just suggestions. Take these suggestions and tailor them to fit your specific situation and make them work for you.
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2 is a great point. Too often we forget why someone wanted us in the first place.
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