There are few things that can make you as giddy as thinking that your ex might want to get back with you. Whether it's that you still love them and want to get back with them or whether it's just a little bit of 'I told you so' because they broke up with you, there are ways to spot the signs ex wants you back.
Before you get too carried away, you should make sure that you are considering reconnecting for the right reasons. Don't do it for spite and don't do it just because you are lonely. These are both bad reasons to get back with an ex and it could come back and bite you.
Here are the signs to be on the look out for;
1. The first one is pretty much of a no brainer. If your ex is always on the phone to you than it may mean that they haven't really gotten over you. It's just not that common to stay in touch with someone after you break up, unless there is more going on.
2. If you find that your ex has been asking about you and talking to mutual friends about you, it is possible that they would like to get back with you. Of course, if they just casually ask how you are doing, that may not mean anything, but if they are asking about you often, it could be a sign that they want you back.
3. If your ex calls and asks you to get together for coffee or lunch, etc. it might mean that they want you back. Of course, it could also just mean that they consider you a friend and want to know how you are doing. It really just depends on how often they call and how they act when they are with you.
For example, if the two of you get together and they keep on asking if you are seeing someone else or they act jealous or possessive of you it is likely a sign that they want you back.
If they just keep things casual and friendly or if they talk about who they are seeing, it's likely that they just consider you a friend.
4. If you and your ex do get together for coffee and they keep talking about 'what might have been' it might mean that they are fishing to try and find out what you are feeling and whether or not you want to get back with them.
It's just not that common to keep hanging out with your ex and talking about your life together. It's much more common to just move on or at least talk about the present and what you are doing now... unless of course they want to get back with you.
If you want to know what your ex is thinking, these tips can help you watch for the signs ex wants you back. Hey, if all else fails... you can always just ask them.
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