When you find yourself saying “I miss my ex girlfriend,” you need to find ways to move forward with your life. Regardless how bad the break up was, there is life after your ex. Finding your way through the depression that follows the end of the relationship can be difficult. That is why you need to take concrete actions to move forward.
Firstly, you need to work on bringing closure to the relationship. Closure is the process by which you move on from a situation. While you might find specific situations in which you say, “I miss my ex girlfriend,” you won't be in this state always.
Start by definitively saying that the relationship is over. As long as you think there's a chance that you can get your ex back, you won't be able to move on. Healing begins with putting an end to the relationship.
Next, you need to physically close the relationship. You do that by exchanging all of the possessions in the other’s care. Give her back the toothbrush and curling iron she kept at your house and ask her for the sweat shirt that she had borrowed for the long term. If you owed one another money, settle up.
Once you have your possessions back, give yourself some physical space. While you might want to remain friends with your ex in the end, staying away in the short term will facilitate healing. Don’t call, text, or e-mail one another. If she tries to contact you, screen her out.
And, do not show up at places she is likely to be. You do not want to give her any opening to get under your skin. Seeing her with another guy so soon will just prompt feelings of “I miss my ex girlfriend” all over again.
You might even need to change a few of your social habits. If you go to a small church, you might want to consider changing houses of worship at least in the short term. You might have to pick a new favorite bar or hang out also.
When you start going new places, you'll inevitably meet new people. Some of these people will be female. These new women are good prospects for dates.
While it might seem right now that you will never want to date another woman, the truth is that the sooner you get back on the dating scene, the sooner you will begin to heal.
It might not be enough to just be available though. Consider actively seeking out women. Take a class at the local university’s extension program. Join a co-ed softball team. Take up a new hobby. All of these strategies will allow you to begin meeting new women.
If a woman intrigues you, ask her out even if you can not picture yourself in a long term relationship with her. A date is just a fun social experience, not a commitment.
Pretty soon, you will not be saying “I miss my ex girlfriend” nearly as often. You will have moved on with your life.
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