Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Get My Ex Back

Do you wonder “how do I get my ex back?” This article will show you five different strategies to get my ex back. These are not strategies that can be done in conjunction with each other. Pick one path and stick to it.
The second path is to be needy. This isn't a suggested path. When you're needy, you write lots of love letters, pester them with dozens of texts or e-mails, and call them at least 5 times a day. Unless your ex is a real wimp, this will in all likelihood turn them off rather than get your ex back.
The alternative to being needy is the second path which is to be available. If you have some hope that your ex will want you back after you have given them a little bit of space, your best strategy is merely to be available. Answer their phone calls and e-mails, give them a shoulder to cry on, and do not harass them about getting back together. It’s all right to go on with your life and date others during this period, but do not flaunt it in your ex’s face.
If you follow the available path, you will just “show up” places where your ex is likely to be hanging out. You will find occasional excuses to call your ex (but never more than once every few days).
In this path, you'll also send emissaries to him or his friends broaching a reconciliation.
But if you do not think being available is going to work, you are able to choose the third path which is to be aggressive – about others. If you choose the aggressive path, you're going to play on one of mankind’s primal urges, namely jealousy.
This third path could also be called “date your ex’s best friend” because that is one of the strategies on this path.
What you will want to do is make yourself your ex’s dream girl (or guy) and then pursue his friends. When you show up at places he or she hangs out, you will pay lavish attention to your ex’s friends and none whatsoever to him or her.
When you do land a date with your ex’s friend, you should text your ex and ask him what sort of restaurant to make reservations at for your date. Get in your ex’s face with the fact that you're on the market.
As your ex sees that you're a valuable commodity, they will want you back. Jealousy is a powerful human emotion.
Be aware that playing games like this could backfire. If you invest a lot of emotion in “tricking” your ex into wanting you and he or she really is over you, you may hurt yourself badly. Only you can decide whether this strategy is worth the consequences it might cause you.
So, there are three different paths to how to “get my ex back.”

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