All right you are broken up because you've lost the love of your life and now you want them back. But is it possible to get back your love? If so, then how? Let me show you...
I know it is a cliche, but it is true: breaking up is hard to do. That's why people almost always do the wrong thing when they're going through a breakup. They are hurt, angry and scared and they just react. And that's where the trouble begins.
If you want to get back with your love you need to follow a couple of simple tips. Following these tips will not always be easy but you will have a much better chance of getting back together with your ex then you would if you do not follow them.
1) Do not suffocate them. Even though it is hard to keep your distance that's precisely what you have to do. Even when you want to scream at them that they're being dumb and they are throwing away a wonderful relationship you need to hold that in.
You need to give your ex time to miss you. If you make them angry by pursuing them relentlessly you will lose them forever. And this is precisely what most people do.
2) Do not spend too much time worrying about them, concentrate on you. Now would be a good time for you to take stock of you. Decide what traits you have that may have contributed to the relationship falling apart and try to fix them.
Remember, you aren't fixing them to get your ex back, you're fixing them because they need to be fixed and you want to be the best person you are able to be.
No matter what happens with your ex, whether you get back together with them or not, if you take this important step now you'll grow as a person and that could only make your future relationships much better.
3) At some point the two of you will need to talk. Don't do this right away even though that's what you will want to do. You both need time to let things cool off otherwise any conversation you have is likely to end up with crying, or screaming, or both.
Once a little time has gone by you both could realize that you miss one another and hopefully have an honest conversation about what each of you is feeling and where you would like to go from that point on.
Just remember this isn't about proving that you are right and they are wrong. It is about trying to truthfully evaluate and understand each other's viewpoint. That's the only way you are able to build a solid relationship.
Following these 3 seemingly simple steps could really help you get back your love. It is not going to be easy but it is the only way to reconcile and build something strong for the future.
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