I Lost Love

Are you still holding a candle for your ex, telling your friends and family 'I lost the love of my life'? If that sounds like you then there may still be hope to get your relationship back. There are a few things anybody can do to make an ex fall madly in love with you all over again. You truly can rekindle that old flame.
The first thing you need to think about is what may have gone wrong. Stop worrying about telling people 'I lost love' and think about what positive steps you are able to take instead. When you are able to identify what you think went wrong in the relationship, you are in a good position to begin working on tactics to rectify it and then put some things in place to get your relationship back.
All relationships begin filled with excitement and adrenaline. You both want to please the other person, so you make a big effort to look good and say the right things. You both enjoy each others company, because you are both trying very hard to be pleasant.
At this point most relationships move into a comfortable phase, where you both feel a bit more relaxed. This is the phase where a lot of relationships break up and it can take anywhere from a month to a year to reach this point, and even longer with others.
Regrettably, some women misread the signals from their man. They think his comfortable phase means he's pulling away. Most women's first instinct is to try hard to bring him closer again. The common tactic they try is to cling tighter to him, wanting to see him more frequently and wanting him to reassure her that he's not leaving.
The fact is men view these tactics as desperation and neediness, which makes them pull away. When their fun-loving, happy girlfriends begin these frantic efforts to cling to them, men feel as though they have lost the girl they fell in love with. Alternatively, they have a stranger who's making him feel as though he can not do anything right. This is the primary reason why men begin to pull away from their girlfriends.
By taking a bit of time out after a break up and working on finding your own confidence again means that you will realize you've the power to make yourself happy. You can pursue interests that please you or hang out with friends who make you feel good. These activities should also help you to realize that you do not need your ex to make you feel happy. You are able to do that yourself.
With your new self-confidence and positive attitude, you are in a much better position to call your ex and suggest getting together for a friendly chat over a cup of coffee. Let him see that you have found that happy, confident girl he fell in love with and his feelings will come rushing back. Remember, in the beginning of your relationship, it was the happy, easy going version of you that he fell in love with.
No relationship is perfect and of course you will have moments where things aren't so perfect, but by making sure you both enjoy the time you spend with each other, you will be less likely to be telling people 'I lost love' and more likely to tell people 'I found the love of my life'.