My Boyfriend Dumped Me What To Do Next

If you are thinking, "My boyfriend dumped me. Now what do I do?" You are not alone. Billions of people have been in the same place you are right now. Things do get better, whether you get back together with your boyfriend or not. But if you are despairing, "My boyfriend dumped me!" then you need to have a good cry and then pull yourself together.

You in all likelihood would like to win your boyfriend back. While there are no guarantees that you will be able to get back together, there are a few things you can do that will help. The first thing is to realize that people get dumped daily for a number of different reasons. And the one you think caused your breakup might not be the actual reason.

You have to stop assuming and stop telling people, "My boyfriend dumped me because of—“, fill in the blank, if you are not precisely sure that's how come he dumped you. How do you know for certain why you were dumped? You have to ask, if you truly want to know.

Make certain and only ask if you believe you are able to take the truth, though. If asking may cause him to tell you something that you have suspected but have been in denial about, for example, will it cause you more pain to find out than to not know? Perhaps you should just let the past stay there, and work on the future, in that case.

But if you need to know—and you may if you truly want to work things out—then you will have to ask. Try not arguing with the answer you get when you ask. Just accept that "my boyfriend dumped me because of 'this,'" and move on.

The next step is to merely ask if he thinks there's a chance. If the reason he broke up with you is something you believe you are able to fix, then you should make that clear to him. Let him know you are willing to work on these things because you believe that you have something special and you would like to make it work

It may really be difficult to do these things. Being dumped hurts. But if you would like to get back together and make your relationship work, then there has to be honest communication going on between you. And the worst thing that could happen is that things aren't going to work out.

If that's the case and there's no chance of you getting back together despite any efforts you may put forth, then at the least you made the effort and in all likelihood learned something about yourself.

Examine the reasons he broke up with you and you may decide that it is not really a bad thing. Even if you know you are better off, it feels crummy to get dumped. Be nice to yourself and treat yourself to a facial or a pedicure.

And try to remember that "My boyfriend dumped me!" is something that numerous others have had to deal with, and they made things work out, so you can too.