Heartbroken songs are the perfect songs after you have broken up with the person that you love. You do not feel like listening to anything cheerier. As a matter of fact, some cheerier songs can only make things worse because you are reminded of the good times you had together. You might even try your hand at writing heartbroken songs after your break up.
Heartbroken songs are an old custom, reaching back to in all probability the day man discovered music and singing. And to the day he discovered broken hearts. If you are not comfortable trying to come up with an full song or you've trouble rhyming, you can always compose a poem instead.
You can even write your ex a long letter in which you express yourself, if you feel a poem or song is just too difficult or too far removed from that they would actually expect of you. But if you are able to make up a song that truly expresses how you feel then you should go for it.
If you have ever had somebody write a poem or a song for you, you know how good it feels. So the idea that you would make up heartbroken songs might actually move your ex to think about what's going on. They are certain to be touched in some way say by the gesture, at the least.
To write these songs, you only need to write poetry and then put it to music. You have to write the words, but you do not have to be able to write music. Just come up with a melody and sing the songs to that melody. If you can not come up with a melody of your own, then pick a melody from a favorite song and write new words for it.
Still, writing songs Is not for everybody. Luckily there have been billions of them written for you already! You in all likelihood already have a couple of favorites that you like to listen to. Now they might have an completely new meaning when you listen to them.
There's a good chance that your ex will find new meaning in them also, since you have broken up. You could burn a CD of numerous sad songs about break ups and send it to him or her with a letter. The thing that makes this so effective is that you will very carefully pick out the songs you include.
Just because a song is sad and about a breakup does not mean it is a good idea to include it. Really listen to the words and the sentiment behind them. Then pick out songs that especially fit your situation.
It could really be effective to pick out a a couple of sad songs about the relationship being strained or ending, and include a really uplifting love-song among them. If you have a special song as a couple, including that as the last song on the CD can remind your ex of happier times.
Heartbroken songs are there to help you heal, but if you use them right they might help you get back together with your ex.
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