To Win Back Love Forget Your Heart And Use Your Head

If you are serious about finding a way to win back love, then it means you are going to have to begin using your head and stop following your heart! It truly is that simple.

So let's look at this! Your heart is without doubt telling you to drop everything, chase down your ex and make them listen to what you have to say, whether they want to or not. You heart has convinced you that all your ex has to do is to hear and understand just how much you miss, love and want them back and your ex will forget about everything that went wrong take you back on the spot! Wrong!

To win back love your head would never tell you to do any of that, instead your head would say back off, get a grip and take your time. Guess which one you should be listening to! Yep, your head!

So, leave your ex alone, do not phone them, do not try to unintentionally bump into them where you know they hang out and do not send them love notes – briefly make no attempt whatsoever to contact them.

By contacting them, you are making yourself seem desperate, a pain in the butt and somebody that no right minded person would even want to be around never mind consider dating again. Like a diamond that increases in value the rarer it is, where your ex is concerned, aim to be rare! Let your ex marvel where you are and why they have not heard from you and just like that they'll want to hear from you and see you.

If you are stuck with a problem and the first person you'd typically call is your ex, then you are going to have to work out how to solve that problem yourself. Not only does this heighten your standing with your ex, because they realize that you are able to cope on your own, but it also heightens your own standing in your own head. If you figure out how to cook that favorite meal that your ex used to cook for you – you realize you can cope! If you figure out how to change the oil in your car – again you realize that you can cope!

The art to win back love is based in rationale and composure. Only then will your ex give you the time of day. Whatever fire is burning in your heart for your ex, allowing it to run riot and influence you unduly will only be to your detriment. Calm the flames of your passion and alternatively use the logical! That's what will in the end help you to win back love.