How To Get Guy Back If Hes Walked Out On You

Finished with your guy? Want to desperately get guy back? Then you are going to have to use a strategy that will help you get him back and not cause him to fly the coop!

First of all remember that just because you want him back it does not mean that he wants to come back. If you have broken up before and your relationship has become a breakup/makeup carousel, pretty soon one or both of you will would like to one day get off that particular ride permanently. So, there's a chance that he may have reached this point, regardless what you now feel and want.

Second to get guy back you are genuinely going to have to look at the relationship as a whole, not just the parts you are comfortable looking at, because only then can you start to ascertain what's causing the problems.

If you need outside third party help to scrutinize your relationship, then it is always worthwhile getting that assistance. If you have good and honest friends who will tell you what you need to hear, as opposed to what you would like to hear, then talk to them.

You should also understand that to pull this off you are going to have to stop acting on whim and emotion and start working a thoughtful proven plan. This is in all likelihood the most important step you'll need to take, so get yourself in check. Sit down and plan to do whatever it takes to stop yourself running around making things worse – stop calling him, texting him and trying to force him to see you because begging and pleading will not work.

Alternatively, occupy yourself by getting out and meeting new people, take a class, get fit, whatever it takes to help you re-focus and approach the entire situation from a point of clearness and calm, is what you need to do.

Especially take the time to consider why you want to get guy back, because to be truthful, too many people find themselves back with their exs only to discover a couple of weeks down the line that they've made a big mistake. So just because you would like to get guy back right now, ask yourself if you actually should?

If you have come to the conclusion that getting this guy back is the correct move for you, then once you've yourself under control and you have thought things through, then your next move is to call and talk to him.

Understand that he might very well need more time before he's ready to speak to you never mind, entertain the idea of rekindling your relationship. Your goal, if this happens, isn't to force the situation. Alternatively, tell him that you understand completely and then tell him you'll give him more time to think things through. Leave it at that and continue living your life and keeping yourself busy.