Are You In The Right Relationship

How can you tell if you are in the right relationship? Have you made a mistake by getting back together with this individual, only you can not see it yet? Occasionally during a break up the only thing you want is the other person. But once you are back together you question if you are in the right relationship.

There is no foolproof way to determine if this individual is the right one for you. The only thing you are able to figure out if you are in the right relationship at the time. Things can change, but for right now you can look around and see if this is the right place to be.

You have to ask yourself several questions to figure out if this relationship is right for you today. Start with, are you happy? You will not be skipping and picking flowers every second, naturally, but generally you should feel happy to be with that individual.

You might have a doubt from time to time or a bad feeling, but if your feelings toward the person and the relationship are by and large positive, then you may be in a great relationship. Do not let the odd doubt or strange feeling make you wonder if you have made a mistake.

When you do feel doubt or feel sad, why do you? Is it since you are wondering about a specific other person and thinking that you may be with them instead? Or are they just general thoughts about the possibilities you might be missing if you were not in this relationship?

Everybody thinks things like that occasionally. But if you’re preoccupied by “what ifs” and “if only” thoughts, you might not be in the right relationship after all.

Do you feel secure in the relationship? This applies to feeling physically safe, as in your partner would never hit or abuse you. And it also applies to feeling emotionally safe. You feel that they wouldn't want to hurt you for the world.

Do you feel safe from the threat of a break up? Or do you worry about your partner cheating frequently? If you spend a lot of your time in the relationship wondering if the other person is capable of cheating, then you may not be with the right person.

If you believe the person is cheating, then you are spending a lot of time being suspicious and questioning his or her motives. That’s no way to spend your days. You need to work out if your doubts are reasonable.

Would that person really cheat or do you think those things from your own insecurities? If you really do not trust the other person, you should not be in a relationship with them. That will only serve to make you miserable and suspicious, and could end badly for both of you.

Do you feel special? If you feel like you are constantly fighting for the other person’s attention and affection, you might seek somebody else. You should feel like the person most important to them if you are in the right relationship.