Are you suffering from the pain of a break up? Do you feel that you would do anything to turn back the clock a few days? If your love’s run out, here’s how to win your ex back.
Firstly, do not go out and chase them. They in all likelihood need some space. As a matter of fact, frequently they will come to regret their decision if they aren’t pressured.
That means that you should not call, text or e-mail them for a week or so. Whatsoever you do, do not go begging them to come back. Do not send flowers or love notes. Alternatively, hang back and chill.
After a week or so, if your love has not made any contact, it's now alright to do it yourself. But be casual about it. Drop them an e-mail saying “how are you doing?” Once again, do not overdo it. You do not want to appear too eager.
Just as there's power in romantic relationships, there's a power balance in a break up situation. If you give up your power by chasing your ex, you actually lessen your chances of getting them back.
If the situation was a minor blow up, you might be able to win your ex back by stepping back for a few days and then dropping a casual hint that you're still interested.
But, if a month or so has gone by and you are still not back together, it is time to step things up. By this time, he or she has in all likelihood began thinking of new mates. Now, it is time to really learn how to win your ex back.
It's really important not to crowd your ex, even when you're pursuing them. Do not stalk. It's all right to show up where they hang out now and again, but be prepared to pay attention to others besides your ex.
You should also consider contacting your ex now and then in a casual way. For example, you may e-mail them saying “I walked by the park where we flew kites that time and it made me think of you. I miss those days.” Also, make certain that you always remember their birthday with a card or small gift. This will let them know that they're still on your radar.
One controversial maneuver is to ask one of your ex’s friends out on a date. Then text your ex and ask him or her where the friend would like to go on the date. This will make your ex think that you're moving on and make him or her question whether they truly want to be broken up.
It's O.K. to date others while you're broken up, but you should refrain from sleeping with them. Your ex might consider this a final sign that the relationship is over. So, be true to your love even though you've broken up.
And that is how to win your ex back.
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