Get Back Together With Ex Listen To Him

Kristi was devastated. She wanted to get back together with ex boyfriend Thad. Thad had told her that he needed some “space.” Thad said that he still cared for her but did not want to date exclusively any longer.

What should Kristi do to get back together with ex Thad? Should she call him and text him? Should she show up and flirt with his friends? Should she ignore him completely?

Actually, she should do none of these. Rather, she should listen to him.

He says that he loves her but that he needs space. While this might seem like a cliché, the truth is that a lot of times when people use this line they mean what they say.

Occasionally a relationship just gets ahead of an individual. They might not be ready for the responsibilities a relationship carries. But that does not mean that they do not love their ex. As a matter of fact, they might love him or her a bit much and would like to take a step back.

Given that this is the case, let’s have a look at what disastrous things could happen if you handle the situation poorly.

For example, if Kristi were to continuously pursue Thad with calls, e-mails and texts, she would not be giving him the space he needed to get his head on straight. Letters, gifts, and singing songs under his window late at night would have the same effect.

One of Kristi’s friends advised that she begin flirting with all of Thad’s friends to make him jealous in an attempt to get back together with ex. This is a common recommendation because it's assumed that men will want what other men have. The problem is that by playing games now, Kristi would be jeopardizing her relationship in the future. And, there's a strong likelihood that Thad would just be angry at Kristi and push her even further away.

Another choice Kristi considered was just ignoring him completely. In some ways, because she was so hurt by Thad’s rejection, she wanted to punish him in turn.

But, if she's open and receptive but not pushy when they meet one another in social situations that are not contrived, she shows him what a fantastic woman and fantastic human being she is. She becomes somebody that he wants to spend time with. She has allowed him to see her at her best.

Kristi has a number of choices if she wants to get back together with ex. But, her best choice is merely to listen to Thad. He has said he needs space. So, she should give it to him. She should let him have the chance to decide whether to get back together.

My guess is that Thad will come back to Kristi and he will be ready to take the relationship to the next level. If Kristi plays her cards right, she will have a stronger relationship overall.

That’s how to get ex back in a healthy way.