There are many ways to say, "Your my wife and I love you." Everyone knows the saying about "if the wife is happy, everyone is happy". She has many stressors in her life especially if she is also a working Mom. She works all day and then comes home and has to deal with the kids and laundry not to mention making dinner for everyone and then cleaning up afterward.
What you can do as the husband is relieve some of her burden. Offer to take the kids to ball practice or help with dinner and the clean up afterward. Help the kids with their homework and baths when it is time to get ready for bed. Do the laundry and run the vacuum over the living room carpet every now and again. if you do these things you will not have to say, "your my wife and I love you", she will know it by your actions.
It's the little things you do for her that mean so much. If you have been together for some time you probably already know the kinds of things she likes. You can send flowers to her at work or give her a card for no reason just to say "I love you". But sending flowers is easy, all you really have to do is make a phone call to order them.
The things I am talking about are things she would not expect you to do. They call this romance. Doing romantic things for your wife may seem a little weenie to you but it is those things like putting a note in the lunch bag she takes to work or saving things like ticket stubs or the take away menu from your first dinner date.
Keeping a running track of all the things you have done together since you first met and bringing out your souvenirs to show her when she is having a particularly rough day just to bring back all the memories will make her see that you do care. This will stop the bad mood in it's tracks. She will begin to feel warm fuzzies for you and be happy again.
Change things up a little bit every now and then, too. If you are the one who does most of the outside chores. Tackle one or two of the inside chores for her before she gets home from work. Start dinner if you can cook, if you can't then order something in. Have the table set and laundry started.
If you want to give her some peace have the kids fed, bathed and playing quietly in their rooms so the two of you can have a nice quiet dinner together and she can vent all of her frustration of her day to you. Have a nice bottle of wine ready so the two of you can relax together for just a little while.
Make sure to promise a nice neck rub or foot rub after dinner or offer to run the bath for her so she can soak for 30 minutes, undisturbed of course. Light some candles for her in the bathroom and fill the tub with her favorite bath salts or bubble bath. She will be so touched by your thoughtfulness and that you found a way to say, "your my wife and I love you."
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