Relationships That Crash And Burn

If you find that all the relationships you have had tend to crash and burn, you may be wondering what you can do to increase your chances of finding true love that will last throughout a lifetime.

The truth is that it isn't as hard as you may think it is, it doesn't start with that other person, it starts with you. Weird, huh? But, actually that makes things easier. You have a much better chance of having great relationships if you depend on you and not expect to change anyone else.

So you don't have to go through life trying to find that perfect someone, instead you can make yourself the best version of you that you can be and that makes it easier to find someone who can love you and treat you well.

How you treat yourself and how you expect to be treated is a huge determining factor in finding that perfect person. So many of us have a lot of undiscovered issues. These issues can cause a lot of problems and it's really tough because we don't even know we have these issues.

If you have limiting beliefs about yourself and who you are and what you deserve, than you will on a subconscious level be drawn to those people who will treat you the way you think you should be treated... even if that is badly.

I know this all sounds odd, but it is true. Everything we say and do comes from our subconscious mind. That can be dangerous if we have negative thoughts or feelings in our unconscious mind.

The real problem is that if we don't know those negative thoughts and feelings even exist, how can we combat them? The short answer is that we can't.

Not only can we not move past them if we don't even know they exist we can't possible get rid of them at all until we acknowledge their existence.

So, to have strong interactions in all types of relationships, not just romantic, you must first spend some time figuring out where your weak spots are. Once you've identified your limiting thoughts and beliefs, you will need to find ways to get rid of them.

There are many techniques you can use to get rid of these limiting thoughts and beliefs. Most of them are quick and easy to do. You won't need to invest a lot of time to find effective methods for "clearing" these limiting thoughts and beliefs.

You may be wondering "if it's so easy, why isn't everyone clear of their limiting beliefs and having great relationships?" Well, the reason is that most people have a limiting belief about the existence of limiting beliefs! I know, it's enough to give you a headache isn't it?

But it's true and it is a solid strategy for improving yourself and by doing that, improve your life in many ways.

As long as you are willing to open your mind, and make some changes, you can greatly improve your chances of finding  good, long lasting relationships. What else would you really want to have?