Marriage Song

Marriages are special contracts between two people who love each other, we all know this. But there are a lot of little things that sometimes get overlooked. Small details that mean a lot to us once we get married. These can take the form in a variety of ways from little habits we formed living together or something we both enjoy such as a marriage song.

Having these little things can bring a smile to your face when you are out doing something. How many stories have you heard about a couple being out somewhere and a certain song plays and they go "that's our song!" This happens all the time, both in the movies and in real life.

These special little momentos may be insignificant to other people but to you and your spouse they can mean the world. Having a special song to remind you of when you first met or when you first got married can be something you will remember for the rest of your lives.

These songs are not always chosen as often they take the form of whatever song was playing during that moment. However a lot of times no music was playing, that does not mean you should miss out on the fun though. Even if no song was playing you can still choose your marriage song.

The criteria for choosing such a song is entirely up to you and your spouse. But it should usually be a song you both like and hold a special meaning to the two of you. This song is a shared memory between the two of you and every time you hear it, it should remind you of the good times and how much you love one another.

So while the song itself is not that important, choosing it is. If you choose a song that does not hold much meaning to one, or both of you than it is not much of a marital song and will not hold the weight it should.

Throughout our lives most of us listen to a lot of music. We may have favorite songs, or songs that played during specific events. These are the types of songs that should be candidates for your marriage song. You can make a sort of list of all the songs that hold special meaning to you and then cross reference them to see if you share a song.

This may seem like a silly activity but that is the point. It is a fun and silly activity the two of you can share together, and it will be one more memory that comes to mind every time that song starts playing.

If by chance there is no song you both share then what the hey, wing it and just choose a song the two of you like. It's your song after all, who cares why you picked it. As long as it is the two of you making the choice together, that is ultimately all that matters. The song is yours and represents the happiness you enjoy together, so why you choose it is entirely up to you.