Warning Signs Of A Break Up What You Need To Do NOW

If you see warning signs of a break up you need to act quickly to avoid splitting up. It's a great deal easier to prevent a split then to try to reconcile after the event.
So what should you be watching out for? The obvious one is if you're both always arguing. I believe it's healthy for couples to argue from time to time as making up is fun! But when you just fight and do not make friends, you're on dangerous ground.
Perhaps worse is when you've gone past the stage of fighting and now just ignore each other. There's nothing lonelier than sharing a double bed with somebody and having enough room to drive a huge bus between you. Some of the loneliest people are those that are in a broken relationship.
Another sign you could look for is whether your partner prefers to spend time with others. Now do not get paranoid on me. No matter how much they love you, we all need some time out with our own friends. It's when your partner is spending more time with the other people, than with you and your family, that you need to worry.
If you see any signs of trouble, you can't ignore them, but you need to deal with it now. Before you tackle your partner, you need to first decide what you want. Do you see a future with this person? If you do then you need to fight for your happiness; but in a really nice way. Shouting matches or physical violence are not the way forward.
If you have kids arrange for a friend to mind them. Ask your other half out for the evening. If you go to a public place like a restaurant, the conversation is less likely to descend into an argument.
Do not jump into the chat by flinging accusations or telling your spouse how let down/ignored/unhappy you feel. You'll only put them on the defensive and that will lead to an argument. Alternatively, ask them how they are feeling. Are they happy with the current situation? Is there anything they feel could be improved?
Listen to what they say and try to stay calm and non judgemental. It is not going to be easy and you might have to listen to some uncomfortable stuff. But you want your relationship to work out don’t you.
You might not be able to resolve your issues in one evening, however, it may be all it takes to begin the process of getting your relationship back on track. There's a solution for every problem and you just need time to find yours. Meanwhile, you need to reassure one another that you share a mutual bond of love and respect and that's worth fighting for.
Acknowledging the warning signs of a break up and taking action is the first step on the road to recovery. If you both want it, you can save your relationship and live happily ever after.