Can I Get My Ex To Love Me Again - Yes I Can

So you are now single or with somebody new. . .but you can not get your ex out of your mind. You are always thinking "How can I get my ex to love me again. . ." And then you in all likelihood push the thought away because it seems impossible. The good news is that you can get your ex back in your arms. It's been done before, and not infrequently, and it can be done again, by you.
Men and women get out of relationships for different reasons, a lot of which are not understood by the opposite sex because men's and women's brains are wired differently. This makes things even more confusing. Some situations seem to be pretty straight-forward but most aren't.
So before we tackle your goal of getting your ex back, let's have a look at why he or she isn't around to begin with.
Why do men leave relationships? It is pretty simple, really. They leave when they aren't getting what they need. And one sure thing that they need is admiration and respect. It might be for that reason that they they left . . .and perhaps they found it someplace else. One of the most common reasons men give for leaving their wife or girlfriend is “No matter what I did, I could not make her happy!”
Why do women leave relationships? They leave because they feel unappreciated and/or they leave because they are bored. What do you commonly hear from unhappy women? “He doesn’t appreciate a thing I do!”
Now, you may think that your ex's reasons for leaving do not fit into one of those categories. You might be thinking, "my husband left me because I cheated on him." But why did you cheat on him in the first place? It probably has something to do with the fact that you weren't getting the attention and appreciation you needed. Or perhaps you are thinking. . .although that's not an excuse. Or maybe you are thinking "My girlfriend left me because I was never around." But ask yourself, why were you never around?
Now that you are not in continuous contact with your ex, you can take time to look at things more objectively. Use this time constructively to list all the positive and negative factors in your relationship. Meanwhile, make certain you take care of yourself, eat healthy foods and exercise when possible.
Then, after you have had time to concentrate on yourself and look at your relationship with more objective eyes, you can think about making that first contact with your ex. Ask him or her out for coffee in a nonchalant manner. If he or she says yes, go out, talk about light non-threatening subjects and keep it short. At the end of the date, don't re-schedule another unless your ex suggests it. So, in answer to your question "Can I get my ex to love me again?" Yes, you can!
The date may go well, the date may go ok or the date may go terribly. In the last case, you'll need to re-evaluate your situation and see if you want to continue trying later on or if you need to think about moving on.
But if the date goes well, you will see how the answer to "Can I Get My Ex to Love Me Again?" is "Yes, I can!"