How Do I Get My Husband To Love Me Again

"Dear Abby. . .How do I get my husband to love me again?" Have you been thinking this to yourself and wondering where to turn for help? You're marriage has gone stale and you do not know precisely why, or even if you do know why, you do not know exactly what to do about it.

What usually takes place regrettably is that as time passes, the powerful love, respect and admiration that women feel from their husband is replaced by feelings of hurt, awkwardness and distance. Some women are certain that their husbands have fallen out of love with them. sometimes the husband actually spells it out. Or occasionally the husband denies this but the "something's-wrong-feelings" are still around. If you feel that your husband has fallen out of love with you, there are steps you are able to take to bring you back to where you once were in your relationship and/or to make your marriage even stronger.

Try to remember to when you and your husband first fell in love. Do you remember what you loved about him and what he loved about you? Naturally we all change as we get older so some of our qualities have become stronger and some have vanished. A very common example of this is when a career-woman becomes a stay-at-home mom.

Occasionally husbands miss the way their wives were before they became homemakers. So now you are thinking, "Well, I can't do anything about that!" To some extent that's true. You have a new and important role now in life that you should not give up but you could try to add some variety in every now and then by taking a night off to go out with friends or volunteer for a cause. This will remind your husband, and in all likelihood even yourself, that you're a multi faceted person with a lot to offer.

Here is something else that you need to consider if you are trying to get your husband to fall back in love with you. Remember what the bible says? "Do unto others as you would have done to you. . ."? How are you treating your husband? Of course how you act towards him may be altered if you feel that he does not love you any longer. But how have you been treating him in the last few years even before you noticed the change in him? It is easy and commonplace to start taking your husband for granted once you are married and even more so after the years go on. He probably does the same with you.

Perhaps you have been dedicating yourself to the kids mostly and that means less one-on-one time with your man? Or maybe you are constantly nagging him about certain things you want done around the house which he neglects to do?

If you are able to switch your behavior around and begin treating your husband the way you'd like to be treated, he will eventually catch on and do the same. By letting your husband know that you appreciate and love him, you will bring the two of you closer. And that's one answer to your question "How do I get my husband to love me again?"