How To Get Girl Back If Youve Been A Jerk

Some situations in life are a big struggle and one of them is how to successfully get girl back and keep her after you have messed up big time!

So what did you do? Did you cheat? Were you inattentive? Selfish? Or just unfortunate? The questions could go on. Whichever or whatever you did, if you seriously would like to get girl back, you are going to have to sort yourself out!

It is without doubt going to be hard for you, but I am going to suggest something counter-intuitive: leave her alone! Give her some time to herself. You never know, she could well realize that she misses you and agrees to starting up the relationship once again all on her own. Do not dismiss this possibility, even if all looks lost right now, equally do not cling to it as a possibility. If it happens it happens, if it does not it does not!

Nevertheless, if what you need to get girl back is a much more direct and hands on approach then again, take some time out and use that time to get your head straight. By default, you give her some time to think as well and put the whole thing into much needed perspective.

So, find your friends and spend time with them. Make certain you are not annoying her with e-mails and texts and unintentionally trying to bump into her in the places where you know she hangs out. This will only boomerang on you and ruin your chances of getting her back, since she will only become pissed off with you.

If you neglected her, missed her birthday, barely ever took her out, then you need to earnestly look at that conduct. No girl worth her salt is going to put up with such behavior. A girl has needs and wants, to be taken out and made a fuss of. She needs to know that you want to be with her for more than the obvious. If you fail to show her that, then she will walk and find a guy who can show her that.

If all that you did was hang around with your friends and ignored her cares, then again, you are going to have to understand that this isn't the way to treat a girl. If you are sure that you want a girlfriend then it is time to fix up, look good and look sharp! Begin acting like she's important to you.

To get girl back you now need to show her that you've understood her needs and you're prepared and ready to meet those needs. Do not mess up and try and get her back under false pretenses. It will not work for long and perhaps when she leaves the next time, she will be gone for good.