Stop Your Divorce Book

Do you want to be one of the one out of every two marriages to fall apart? If not then maybe you could find some help with a good stop your divorce book. You could then save yourselves from becoming just another statistic.

So, those vows you took, did you mean them or were they kind of, "Well, yeah, I do for now until something better comes along"? That, my friend, seems to be the way too many couples approach their marriage.

Another reason too many marriages end in divorce is that the whole marriage thing gets taken for granted. Marriage is work people and anyone who thinks otherwise is doomed to fail. Marriage is not going to always be like the dating and then the honeymoon. Soon after, the
Honeymoon will end and reality will set in.

When that happens then the real work begins, too. There has to be daily communication between you, not to mention respect and trust. If you have taken your vows seriously then there should be only slight problems

Before you even get married there should be clear, set ground rules for everything. That way there will be no misunderstandings and making mountains out of molehills. If this does not happen then things will soon start to spiral out of control and you will find yourself at the library looking for a stop your divorce book. A book from the library will tell you all the things you are reading here and so much more.

Before there are any children brought into the marriage, especially if you rushed into things, learn to live together and make the household run smoothly. Do not, under any circumstances bring a child into the midst of your stupidity with the hopes that everything will suddenly be ok, it won't. The only thing that will happen is that now there is a child that will be hurt beyond belief when the two of you do split up.

The statistics on children of divorced parents is underwhelming at the least. They are more likely to suffer from depression, start smoking or drinking or doing drugs, or all of the above. Not to mention they are more likely to be unable to maintain their own relationships and marriage also. And how would you feel if they didn't "choose" you to be the parent they wanted to be with. It would just add more stress and strife to an already bad situation.

I usually do not like to recommend specific material in my articles but this is one time I will make an exception. I you want the title of a really good stop your divorce book, go to the library and check out the author Homer McDonald who wrote the book called, "Stop Your Divorce". In this book he tells how he developed the theory that simply agreeing with your spouse can help save your marriage.

Arguing only fuels the fire and makes you look desperate and needy. This will only drive the other away faster. So agree, agree, agree. Don't be a doormat but you know what they say about attracting more flies with honey than you do vinegar.