Things getting a little boring in your relationship? Feeling like every day is the same as the day before? How would you like to bring back the excitement and fun you felt when you first fell in love? Think it's impossible? It's not.
See, if you know why a person fell in love with you in the first place, you know how to make that person fall in love with you all over again, as many times as you want – even forever! The trick is figuring out why your mate fell in love with you from the start.
How do you do that? You ask. Bear in mind asking, “Why do you love me?” isn't the best question to ask in this instance. If you don't believe me, ask your mom why she loves your dad. She'll likely say (like most people) “I don't know exactly why I love him, I just do.”
But the truth is that people fall in love with someone because of how that someone makes them feel about themselves. So if you want to find out exactly what it was that started it all, way back when, ask your partner what it was you made them feel, about themselves, when they first began to fall in love with you.
Maybe you made him feel like he was the most sexy man on the planet, or you made her feel like she was intelligent and interesting. In any case, whatever you made them feel about themselves, it's a sure indication feeling that way makes them very happy.
Knowing what makes your partner very happy, what makes him/her feel really good about themselves makes helping them to fall in love with you again a pretty simple operation.
How? Because once you know how you made your significant other feel about him/herself when your relationship first began, you'll have the key to unlocking those feelings of falling in love again over and over in your lives, as many times as you want.
So go ahead and try it today. Ask your partner, “How did I make you feel, about yourself, when we were dating or when we first met?” Then, once you have the answer, do whatever you need to do to recreate that feeling.
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