If you have just broken up from a relationship, whether it was a long marriage or just a few months of dating, either way you are probably feeling bad about it and wondering if there is any way to get an ex back. Most people will wonder this when they break up from a relationship but are still in love with their ex and the good news is that there are things that you can do to get your ex back. Along with the many things that you can do, there are also many mistakes that you can make, so here are some of the things you should avoid if you want to rekindle that lost love.
1. Don't constantly harass their friends. It is tempting to harass your ex's friends to find out what she is up to or if she is dating anyone else. This is just annoying to her friends and as such they will probably just complain to her about you and not have anything good to say.
2. Don't stalk your ex. Don't follow her around or turn up at her favorite hang out spots. Don't sit in your car outside her house and watch her every move. Don't text her 500 times a day telling her you love her and want her back. If you stalk her all you will do is annoy her and perhaps even begin to scare her and you could end up getting in trouble with the law over it.
3. Don't harass your ex's new partner. If she is seeing someone else don't harass him and try to cause trouble between them. Don't try to convince their new boyfriend that she'll never love them as much as she loves you, this will only make you look desperate and sad.
4. Don't call your ex's employer. If your ex is avoiding your calls don't try to get her to talk to you through her boss. Also don't call her boss to ask questions about her. All you will achieve with this is to get her in trouble and possibly even lose her job.
5. Don't call her every change you get. I know you just want to talk to her and try to work things out but if you call her constantly she will get sick of it and even angry. She might just need some space right now so you need to give her that.
6. Don't use anything they say against them. You won't win any fights by bringing up every little thing she said or did in the past and use it against her, particularly if you exaggerate things and make them much worse than they actually were.
These six points are things to avoid when you are trying to get your ex back. You want to get her back, not drive her further away so be careful in your approach. You want to give her some space and use that time yourself to decide what approach to take. It can be difficult playing the waiting game, but it will be worth it in the end.
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It mystifies me why people think stalking their ex is a good idea! :(
ReplyDeleteStalking is definitely something to avoid.
ReplyDeleteWise words!
ReplyDeleteAll very good points. It sucks when people do this.
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