Use Your Head To Get Your Woman Back Keep It Simple

Women are not the most forgiving of creatures so you need to use your head to get a woman back. Women are often compared to elephants, not because they look like them but because they remember things for almost as long as an elephant does. So if you have done something wrong, or she thinks you did something; then be prepared for a battle on your hands.

Your ex will probably only give you one chance to get her back so you need to make sure that you want her back for the right reasons. Often we want what we cannot have. Or worse, if we are the one that was dumped, we think we have to get the other person to fall in love with us again so that we can then dump them so they see how it feels. If either of these reasons are behind your wish to get your ex back, do yourself a favor and don't waste your time.

However, if you have decided that this woman is the mate you are looking for then you need to put your plan into action. The good news is that you can convince her to come back to you as women are also loyal and once she has fallen in love with you, she will find it difficult to turn off these feelings. You need to strike quickly though as a good woman is very attractive to other men who will be all too willing to step into your shoes.

So what can you do? Forget about sending her a bunch of flowers. That doesn't work as it is very easy to order flowers and your woman will prefer you put more effort into getting her back into your life. Writing her a handwritten letter may help to melt some of the ice around her heart but only if you are sincere.

It really depends on why you two broke up. If she felt taken for granted then you need to work on convincing her that you know this was a mistake and won't happen again. If you were unfaithful then you will have to work that bit harder.

Don't try and rush her into changing her mind. She will need time to get over whatever happened between the two of you but that doesn't mean you should disappear into the sunset. You should stay in contact and let her know that she is very important to you and that you want her back in your life. But that you are willing to take things at her pace. I am not suggesting that you offer to stay friends. Your ex probably has enough friends in her life and this is not the role for you.

You should try reading The Magic of Making up as this is the book that sorted out my relationship problems once and for all. It will help you learn how to get woman back and soon.