Getting Back Together With Your Ex Husband

So you're considering getting back together with your ex husband. This is a big step and one which shouldn't be entered into lightly. There are reasons why you split up to begin with. Unless these have been resolved you don't stand much chance of making a success of your relationship the second time around.
But it may have been a mistake to end your marriage and getting back together might be the right thing for you both. Only time will tell. But a couple of tips that you could follow to help ensure success would be:
1) Men hate small talk. Well at least most men do. They can't understand why some women feel the need to discuss every microscopic detail of a problem. Men just would like to see the bigger picture and if you force them to do detail, they'll in all likelihood pull the shutters down. When this happens it doesn't lead to good communication between you.
2) When men say they're sorry and mean it they expect to be forgiven. They don't want you to continue sulking or to act like an elephant and remember that small incident eternally. Most men are straight forward. They're big enough to admit when they make a mistake, apologise and move on. Do yourself a favour and accept they are sorry and let it go. Obviously this wouldn't apply if they were physically or mentally abusive. If this is the case, kick them out and be through with it, because in most cases the man's behaviour will only worsen.
3) do not assume that your ex husband knows you want him back. Men as a rule are worthless at reading signals. They might make better map readers but when it comes to human nature, they frequently need to be told precisely what you want. This applies just as much inside the bedroom as in the rest of your relationship.
4) do not expect your man to rescue you from a life of boredom. Too many girls sit back and wait for the man in their life to make it interesting. Frequently men complain that the only topic of conversation in their house is the plot of some soap opera. Go have a life of your own. Just because you're part of a couple doesn't mean that you can't do a few things individually. While mutual interests are a good foundation of any relationship, so too is having the ability to have conversations. You can't discuss life in general if you never leave the house or do anything interesting.
5) If you do succeed in getting back together with your ex husband, do not let the relationship go stale once again. Arrange date nights where it's just the two of you. If you can't afford a sitter, put the children to bed and then make an effort to dress up. Take the phone off the hook and spend the night absorbed in each others company.
Try the above hints and tips and getting back together with your ex husband might be the best move you ever made.