Nobody likes going through a break up, it's just a fact of life. However, there are times when it seems as though we are in a relationship that's so bad, that we decide it's better to end it than it is to try to carry on. If you are reading this article, then it's a safe bet that you dumped your girlfriend but now you want her back. Getting her back won't be easy, but it is possible if you go about it the right way.
The first thing you're going to have to do is act fast, but not too fast. There is a fine line here. If you wait too long, then there's a good chance she will find somebody new. On the other hand, if you don't wait long enough you will come across as being too pushy and she will pull even further away from you.
Perhaps you have already done a few things to try to get your ex girlfriend back. One of the most common things guys do is buy their exes things like flowers, stuffed animals, cards and jewelry. This often backfires as women can perceive it as if you are trying to buy their affection. There is a term for paying for affection, but it's not a nice word. Even if you are doing it with the best of intentions, it may be taken the wrong way, especially if you have not yet reopened the lines of communication. Which is exactly what you should do.
Sure, you dumped your girlfriend and now you want her back, but you won't get anywhere by just thinking about it. You are going to have to talk to her about it at some point. However, you don't want to come on too strong right away. You should have only one goal when you talk to her, and that is to be able to talk to her again. The best way to do this is in small steps. The first time you talk to her, keep it low key, and don't talk about anything too serious; keep the conversation light and positive. This will make it so she'll be willing to talk to you again, and that's your goal.
Now, it's only fair to warn you: your ex girlfriend is probably going to try to make you prove yourself. She may test you in various ways, and won't make it easy for you. After all, you were the one who dumped her, and she needs to be sure that you are serious about wanting to get back together.
Over time, she will start to see that you are serious, and will take you back. Pay attention to any signals she gives you, and respond accordingly. Be sure to talk about things, and discuss how it will be better this time. Talking about it is great, but it's not enough. You also have to be doing whatever it takes to make it work. That's how to get your ex girlfriend back after you dumped her.
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