How to Get an Ex Girlfriend Back Even If You've Been a Slob

Mike was at a loss as to how to get an ex girlfriend back. Suzie had dumped him alleging that he was a slob. Mike and Suzie had been discussing moving in together and Suzie said she realized that she just was not able to take a relationship to the next level when the partner could not even maintain his own hygiene. Now Mike was at a loss about how to get an ex girlfriend back.

Mike took a deliberate assessment of himself. He noted that he often did not shave on the weekends. He had not had a haircut in eight weeks. Suzie had often nonchalantly mentioned that he may want to get a manicure but he dismissed this as “girl stuff.”

He also looked around his flat and realized that it was a pigpen. No wonder Suzie had not wanted to set up housekeeping with him!

Armed with this all important info about himself, he decided that he needed to win Suzie over. The question was how to get an ex girlfriend back.

While Mike was not very good at cleansing himself, he did hire a housekeeping service to do a deep clean on his flat and then scheduled them to come in once a week. He also asked the housekeeper to put doing his laundry on their list of things to do so that he would always have a clean shirt and pair of undershorts to wear.

He made sure to shower and shave every day – even when he was not going to see anyone. He figured making a habit of it would be a good idea. Mike also made a point that he brushed his teeth morning and evening, something he had neglected now and then before.

After Mike had cleaned up his act, the following step in his how to get an ex girlfriend back campaign was to compose a letter to Suzie telling her about the changes he had made. He even included pics of himself and his apartment.

Suzie was touched enough to agree to have coffee with Mike. She really loved Mike, but had felt that nagging was the only way to get him to change. She wanted to take the relationship to the next level and get a house together, but did not feel that she could live with such a pig.

Mike acknowledged her concerns. He said that there were things that he could do a better job at, like taking care of his personal grooming. He also said that he was unlikely to do a lot of the housekeeping, but he could hire a housemaid service to do that for him knowing that having a clean place was important to Suzie.

Suzie appreciated the efforts that Mike had made. She said she was not ready to change residences based on a couple of week’s efforts though. Mike and Suzie agreed that they'd start dating once again and, in 6 month’s time, reconsider moving in together based on whether Mike had genuinely become less of a slob.

Mike decoded the secret of how to get an ex girlfriend back and saved a relationship that meant a lot to him.